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Before we gather your people and tell your story…

We start by making space for everything that’s in the mix. Your stories, your cultures, your questions, your ideas, and your traditions. And yes, even the things you wish weren’t in the mix, like expectations, practices that don’t feel like a great fit, or challenging relationships. You won’t have to filter yourself, or say “we should probably do it this way.” You get to be 100% honest about what options are on the table without pressure. Think of it like walking into a flower shop. Lots of choices and inspiration, but it would be nearly impossible to use everything.

Next, we’ll figure out what actually matters to you, and what’s just noise, pressure or expectation.

I think authenticity looks good on you! So we’ll focus on things that will make your ceremony feel coherent, and make it easy for you to show up as your genuine selves. That’s what makes for a beautiful wedding experience for you, and for the people you’re gathering, even if they’re not so sure about this whole celebrant thing.

And we’ll get as creative as you want to. A ring-warming to get all the good vibes going? You got it. Having your gathered loved ones sing you down the aisle? Delightful! Tequila shots as a unity ritual? Go on then. Something totally new and unique to you? I’m in!

Get in touch

So what does this look like in practice?

After you submit your enquiry form

I’ll be in touch within 24 hours.

In an email, you'll receive a link to book in a free chat. If you’re based in Bristol or Bath, we can also arrange to meet in person. Want to enquire now? Go on then!
We'll have a discovery chat

30 minutes, no strings and no pressure
This is a chance for you to share more about what support you’re looking for. I’ll mostly be in listening mode, but I’ll also answer any questions. If we’re a good fit, we’ll confirm how we’ll work together (Clarity Session, Ceremony Blueprint, or On-the-Day Celebrant) and then it’s on to the next step…
Learning more about you as a couple

I’ll share a link to a questionnaire tailored to you and your wedding.

Based on how we’ll be working together and what you’ve shared during our first chat, I’ll design a questionnaire that tells me a bit about your story, your priorities, anything you’re concerned about and how you want your wedding ceremony to feel. I’ll use your answers to make sure we get the most out of what comes next.
You can then book in a 60 minute session

Deep-dive sessions to focus on your story
This is where the magic really starts. Whether this is a Clarity Session, or a consultation as part of another offer, you’ll have my support to craft a ceremony that’s authentic and intentional. I’ll share some resources for making decisions and writing your vows, as well as a summary of everything we discuss.
I'll get to work on your wedding ceremony script!

If the level of support you’ve chosen includes a script, at this point I’ll start writing.
You’ll be able to make up to 3 rounds of edits before we finalise it. You’ll also be able to book in 2 additional calls or in-person chats to discuss your ceremony.
If you've chosen a Ceremony Blueprint...

A friend of loved one will be officiating. Lucky them!
Once the script is finalised, I’ll book a 60 minute coaching and prep session with your chosen officiant. I’ll share my (BBC approved!) public speaking tips and tricks, and make sure they have everything they need to deliver the script and run the ceremony seamlessly. Trust me, they’re gonna smash it!
And if you've chosen to have an on-the-day celebrant...

I’ll be there!
I’ll run a rehearsal, and work with your venue and other vendors to make sure your ceremony runs smoothly. Yours will be my only wedding of the day, and I’ll be by your side every step of the way. Typically, I’ll arrive at your venue about 90 minutes before the ceremony begins. I’ll deliver your ceremony and be a calm, joyful presence as we gather your people and tell your story.